New York: Farrar, Straus & Giroux, (1977) dj. Hardcover first edition - Her 4th autobiographical book, one which recounts the "disintegration of her love affair with a woman ten years her senior, a veteran of several marriages, and the mother of grown children. Fiery, seductive, elegant, and exotic, 'Sita' captivates Millett in every sense, offering unimagined pleasure and much-needed emotional security. One day, however, all this changes. Arriving from New York to spend half the year in Berkeley, as they had arranged, Millett is appalled to find the house - their house - overrun with Sita's troubled children and their hangers-on. Amid this unexpected chaos, she struggles with searing jealousy and self-doubt to salvage her relationship with Sita, who is often preoccupied, impatient, and cold, and who frequently disappears for assignations with male lovers." 322 pp. ISBN: 0-374265461.